There was this girl I liked a lot like easily the biggest crush I’ve ever had on a girl. And I always knew from the very beginning just from observing her that she always chased/ seemed more interested in guys who ignore her or don’t give her much attention. She always rings guys phone who ignores her and begs for their attention like she will say stuff like why don’t you ever contact me first etc you don’t care about me etc. Or in the Library there’s this one guy who never talks to her and she always chases him and she’s always the one talks first to him.

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So after asking a girl out at work, to which she rejected me, she has ignored me everyday for a week and I'm baffled. So long story short, a girl at work who iv liked for weeks, we've talked everyday, flirted, never gone a day where she won't come say hi, wave smile, ask how I am, make small talk about the most irrelevant stuff etc.

I was thinking about pulling and pushing with her but she opened up to me about her depression and suicidal thoughts so I decided to leave it plus I don’t want to be someone I’m not and play these childish games etc. Anyway we did end up doing a lot of activities together and she would even say romantic stuff to me but she just ended up leading me on due to all her insecurities and choose another guy over me. This guy just ignores her and he even told her in public when they are in a group not to speak to him because he don’t want people to think they are dating. Despite all that she’s still all over him and always chase him and even wants to switch her degree to his degree which is crazy considering this is is last year

And all the girls that have wanted to date me have always been girls which I put the least effort in and ignore for girls that I’m interested in. I can never ever get the girl I want.

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Do I have to start pulling and pushing with girls I like? How should I approach the next girl I like?

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Okay, deep breath. I (F27) dated a co worker (M27) for two months. It was fun, but ultimately it didn’t work out. Here are a couple of reasons why from my perspective: I asked him why he didn’t acknowledge or speak to me during the work day. He said he had a lot of work to do, and his supervisor was always on him about it. Just imagine someone you’re dating doing a sextuple-take of a member of the opposite sex. A bit much, I think. He’s not ogling her, he’s not staring her down. It’s like he’s making the quick, surreptitious glances to check if she’s looking at him. Part of me just wonders if this is an ego thing.